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Sex - Quality or Quantity?
by karenwarde @ 09 May. 2006 - 12:06:03 pm

When you meet someone and fall in love, your whole life revolves around getting to know each other better. After a while, however, you realise love won't pay the bills and you settle down to 'normal' life.

This is generally when sex becomes something you do at night in bed - preferably before you fall asleep. But, after a hard day's graft, sometimes there just isn't enough energy left. At this stage, quality becomes more important than quantity.

But it varies from person to person whether he or she go for quality or quantity.........What's your opinion about the same.:p

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BabetteKBabetteK [Member]
05/09/06 @ 12:10

Quality any day over quantity!

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karenwardekarenwarde [Member]
05/09/06 @ 12:13

I Agree..........

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05/09/06 @ 14:16

lol quality for me too. I'm so knackered at night generally that it becomes a necessary evil if hubs is going through a randy patch - currency to keep him cheerful and all that. However, during the times when our libido matches and we hit the right dates together quality is fanblinkingtastic and I hope one day I'll be unknackered enough to enjoy both quality and quantity again! Lou xxx

penguinpenguin [Member]
05/09/06 @ 14:59

How do you explain a guy who no longer wants to have sex yet still wanks(next to you) and asks for blow jobs? Is it purely because the relationship is 'old' or could it mean the end of a relationship?Or is this a classic sign of how selfish a man can be? I've been trying to figure this out for a while now, and I still haven't found an answer. Any ideas?????

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wynewitchwynewitch [Member]
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05/10/06 @ 20:57

Oh my gosh, hard fact; it's over! Classic sign about how selfish THAT particular man in question can be [and still asking for blowjobs!!!], I think there are stil lots of good ones out there.
Kick him OUT of your bed! THROW HIM AWAY NOW! Don't wait a second longer. Honestly. I'm assuming YOU like sex too.

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bighandbighand [Member]
05/12/06 @ 15:45

Face it; he aint attracted to you anymore.

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KandAmoistKandAmoist [Member]
05/16/06 @ 09:13

Either he's too lazy or else he's no longer attracted to you - a combination of boht, probably. The real question is - what do you want to do about it? Some options:
If you want better sex, tell him so and if he doesn't deliver tell him you'll take a lover, and if that still doesn't work, take a lover.
If you can't be arsed with sex, then tell him to go and wank elsewhere. The danger in this one is that he might go and get his blowjobs elsewhere, and mosre besides.
Maybe he's enjoying his fantasies more than straight sex. Have you found out what they are? Is he a closet bum-bandit? Might he enjoy some BDSM?
Maybe he's unwell or infirm in some way and genuinely finds intercourse a problem.
But maybe he just a lazy slob

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penguinpenguin [Member]
05/25/06 @ 17:42

Thanks for your comment.
I have suggested the lover idea, he suggested that I should have an affair. He thinks it may help him.
I have toyed with the idea of telling him not to wank in bed with me but I don't think that would change much.....
We've tried fantasies but he still seemed uninterested.
Since my last post, I have tried to talk to him about it more and now he gets angry and tells me that if I stopped talking about it, he may improve.
I guess you are right, he is a lazy slob.....The next question I must answer is, "is this laziness a phase or will it never change?"

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ray_packhamray_packham [Member]
05/09/06 @ 17:12

quality versus quantity a hard question !.......
when i was younger and was fitter its quantity now i'm 38 and its cocoa and slippers time so quality is more important especially as at 38 what used to take an hour now takes only 20 mins oh how time flies when your knackered!

neilemacneilemac [Member]
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05/09/06 @ 21:00

Qua, qua, qua, qua, qua, quality, of course but a gua, gua, gua, qua, qua, quantity of quality too, pe pe please.

Me? Like the aging 38 yr old? Not! I turned 57 this week, but move over cocoa and slippers; there's good guality time to be had with my lover, all night long.... too..... ;) Then I woke up.

Good post Karen, write on hon. :>>

neil

suzeemoonsuzeemoon [Member]
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05/16/06 @ 00:49

Quality, but reasonable amount of quantity ;)

penguinpenguin [Member]
05/25/06 @ 17:35

I wish I could throw him out but I can't bring myself to do it.......ahhhhh........it's bullshit basically

tazmeentazmeen [Member]
03/24/08 @ 13:00

Well...It all depends on what you want...if you are not satisfied and happy, KICK HIM OUT!!! There are too many fishes in the pond...and above all...QUALITY is all that matters honey :o)

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